How  to Stop Overindulging
by www.SixWise.com
 
‘Tis  the season for overindulgence, especially when it comes to eating, drinking and  spending too much. Unfortunately, too much merriment can leave you feeling like  the Grinch.
    
        
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            Most  people overindulge in an attempt to improve their mood. 
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Why  do we tend to overindulge, even though we know it will probably end up making  us feel lousy? Researchers from the University  of Chicago and the University of Michigan  say people often overindulge in an attempt to improve their mood. It can happen  when you’re happy -- and trying to prolong the happiness -- or when you’re sad  and trying to get rid of the blues.
"People  strategically manage their actions both to accomplish their long-term interests  and to attain immediate pleasures. If they believe they need to take action to  regulate their feelings in the here and now, they tend to indulge in immediate  pleasures. In contrast, if they believe such actions are not required, they act  in their long-term interests," the researchers wrote.
In  their study, the authors showed dieting study participants drawings of smiley  or frowny faces.
"The  results revealed that simply associating a smiley with less transience  (coloring with a superfine micro tip, which takes a long time to color, rather  than a sharpie, which colors the face in a few short strokes) resulted in  people becoming more likely to act their long-term interests and choose an  apple as a snack rather than a chocolate," the authors wrote.
They  continue:
“The recipe is simple. If you are feeling happy,  focus on reasons why those feelings will last, and if you are feeling unhappy,  focus on reasons why those feelings will pass."
What Else Can  You do to Avoid Overindulging?
Separate  research from University of Texas at Austin  researchers revealed another simple way to help resist temptation: exaggerating  its threat.
"Four  experiments show that when consumers encounter temptations that conflict with  their long-term goals, one self-control mechanism is to exaggerate the  negativity of the temptation as a way to resist, a process we call counteractive  construal," the researchers wrote.
For  instance, college students with a high grade-point average were more likely  than other participants to estimate that an upcoming party would take time away  from their study. They therefore also were less likely to attend the party.
    
        
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            If you  believe the threat of overindulging is too great, you’re less likely to  indulge. 
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Meanwhile,  women who had strong dieting goals were more likely to estimate a cookie as  having more calories and being more damaging to their long-term weight loss  than those without. Further, another study found that women in a room with  posters of fit models were more likely to exaggerate the calories in a beverage  and drink less of it than those in a room with posters of nature scenery.
"The  mental construal of temptations may be distorted when people experience a  self-control conflict, and such distorted construal, rather than accurate  representations, determines consumers' actual consumption, helping them resist  the temptation and maintaining their long-term goal," the authors  conclude.
Too  Many Decisions Can Also Deplete Your Willpower
Your  level of self-control can also be depleted by simple, daily decisions, research  shows. This may be because self-control and decision-making are both controlled  by the same area of your brain, the prefrontal region.
"Even  if you just have to decide between two cups of coffee at Starbucks, it's a  small choice, true, but doing that over the course of a day will, by the end of  the day, render you less able to be good at self-control," said study  co-author Kathleen Vohs, a marketing professor at the University of Minnesota's  Carlson School of Management, on LiveScience.com.
The  study, published in the journal Alcoholism: Clinical and Experimental Research,  found that after completing a task that required self-control, participants had  less physical stamina and impulse control and increased difficulty with problem  solving.
So  you can help to reserve some of your willpower by delegating unimportant  choices to others. For instance, let your spouse decide your plans for the  weekend or let your waiter or waitress recommend a good entrée to order when  you eat out.
Another  Tip for Improving Your Self-Control, and Not Overindulging, This Holiday Season …
    
        
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If  you have trouble gathering up your willpower and resisting unhealthy  temptations, choosing a fitness routine that addresses both your MIND and your  body may be very helpful.
If  you are currently in a state of mental unrest, be it financial worries,  overworking, relationship troubles or any other negative emotional pattern, it  will be very difficult to make your health a priority -- and overindulging may  become second nature.
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Avoid  Tempting Situations …
Northwestern University researchers have also found that  people tend to overestimate their ability to resist temptations and,  ironically, those who believe their willpower is strongest may be most likely  to cave in. So according to those researchers, the best bet is to not rely on your  self control to keep you making positive choices, but rather avoid situations  that provide too many temptations.
This  may be difficult during your holiday festivities, but come the New Year you can  make it a point to surround yourself with activities that nourish your body  inside and out.
Recommended Reading
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Sources
ScienceDaily.com  December 16, 2009
LiveScience.com  September 24, 2009
LiveScience.com  April 18, 2008
ScienceDaily.com  March 2, 2009